When I first started dating, I assumed attraction would become easier to understand once I had more experience. I thought a few relationships, a handful ofβ¦
The social justice issue that keeps me up at night is reproductive injustice: the unequal power people have over their own bodies, health, sexuality, familyβ¦
Shame can make a single moment feel like a complete definition of who I am. A mistake becomes proof that I am careless. A boundary becomes evidence that I amβ¦
I used to think happiness was a social responsibility. If someone asked how I was doing, I reached for the acceptable answer before I checked in with myself:β¦
Every morning, my rabbit reminds me that time can be measured in more than minutes. It can be measured in the quiet rustle of hay, the pause before a cautiousβ¦
The internet can be a place where survivors find language for what happened, discover practical support, and realize they are not isolated. It can alsoβ¦
I started a podcast because healing rarely looks the way people expect it to. It is often described as a finish line: identify the wound, do the work, becomeβ¦
There are days when confidence feels less like a personality trait and more like a room I cannot find. I can know that I am capable, deserving, and allowed toβ¦
For a long time, I treated my past like evidence in a trial. Every relationship I stayed in too long, every boundary I failed to set, and every decision madeβ¦
There is a particular kind of silence that can settle around pleasure after trauma. People may talk about healing as if it means feeling safe, confident, andβ¦